I'm very concerned of the amount of men and women (especially women) that feel "shy" or "embarrassed" about their appearance when they are completely naked.
A friend of mine needs to wear a bra when she's having sex because she thinks it's too vulgar to let the girls out and have fun during sex.
This doesn't necessarily need to be about sex, but also about women exploring their own body and even fantasizing. The society we live in today is always about a sex symbol and of weight. Sex should be great, I agree, but this society has built up so much pressure over so many men and women that some just can't climax anymore or they climax way too soon and doesn't give enough time for the other one to climax.
It's a big issue, everyone is thinking "Oh, is he looking at the small cut I have on my breast? does it bother him?", "Oh man, I have too much hair on my chest, does it bother her?" and even "I don't want him to go down on me because I think my vagina is ugly or smelly" what ever the case may be... There's even women that don't like to have their feet touched during sex and so they wear sox's! I will say this, keeping your feet warm give you a better chance to orgasm, but don't wear sox's just because you think they are ugly or stinky or what ever. It's like, no one can actually be with their own body, they don't know how to love their body. I'll tell you guys something, if a person loves their own body then we are talking about a person that would do it anytime, anywhere and however; it's confidence and knowing that when someone loves their own body then everyone will... well, the majority.
Note: Did you know...
69% of men and 48% of women fantasize having sex in a public place, running with risks and being hallowed by someone.
Let's break that percentage down, 69% of men fantasize of having sex in a public place and the other 31% fantasizes about the usual and... unusual stuff that we wouldn't like to know, but in that 69% men also fantasize over normal stuff... Let's just round up the equivalent: 100% of men fantasize about sex, that's that.
Now... women, ah women. Sometimes they disappoint me, well, not sometimes, it's the majority of the times. Only 48% of women fantasize having sex in public places and also fantasize about the normal stuff, the rest of that percentage are women who fantasize the usual and unusual and I know there's a neat amount of women that just think it's gross or inappropriate to even think of sex. Sad, sad, sad.
Girls, no one is gonna look into your brain and look at the pictures, movies, hear, smell, feel, etc when it's about sex or what not, NO ONE CAN! imagine what ever the fuck you girls want, our thoughts/ideas are bulletproof, as V says. So, get on with it, have fun, and if you can't think of anything there are plenty of books, audiobooks, videos, photographs, etc on the internet that you can browse for. Heck, I have some audiobooks myself.
What I'm trying to say here is that you shouldn't be embarrassed over your body. The less you notice something from your body the less noticeable it'll be for the other one. And!... get to know the person, you never know if he or she is a stalker, really. For pete sake, and use condoms or at least ask if he or she is healthy.
So, be careful, have FUN, explore one another and don't get hurt! One out of 3 people suffers from an accident while having sex, the most common ones: contracted muscle and cramps.
Oh! also... every time he or she has an orgasm you burn 3 calories, I know it's not much, but sum it up after the amount of time you guys have been having sex at one time. It's pretty much around 50 calories.
And the older you get, the shorter the orgasms get so..... GET TO IT!
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