What is life without changes?

That question has been bobbing in my head for a couple of days now since a friend of mine posted on Facebook: "Change is good, change is good, change is good. Ready, would it help?"

The fact that he wrote at the end of that sentence "...would it help?" made me think that he doesn't like changes, like many, many other people, very few know that they need changes in their life and so they do it. My dad, for instance, doesn't like changes, none the less, my mom will throw away anything that is not needed anymore and rearrange anything that can be arranged, my dad hates change, but when he sees it and submits to the change, he likes it and sometimes ends up loving it. So, this makes me think, if someone doesn't like change yet has friends that do like change and there for do change around that person, then that person can submit to it, but only of it's done in the outside, rather than the inside.

So, I ask myself once again, What is life without changes? I'll tell you. A life without changes is a life laking progress. They say that "where ever there is youth there is growth" -Eisenstein, well, it might have been like that in the old days, but not anymore, people get too comfterable now in days, so comfterable that they think "why do something else when I can stay comfterable where I am?" yeah, right behind the shit hitting the fan. We all need changes in our lives, it's what makes us tick, what makes us grow, think, progress... people misinterpret the word change, they think that "change" is an immediate different point of view, the most radical thing on earth, but really it's something that just comes with time, little by little and you don't even notice it, but we are always changing, the society changes all time, look at how technology took over us! of course, we adapt to the easiest, but never the hardest, like if it wasn't worth it. Think about it.

Change is beautiful, it's a breath of fresh air... all the time because it's new beginning to practically everything and they all end... eventually, or when you want them to end. The beauty of change is that you get to open a lot of doors rather than closing, but when a few do close, you still have a whole lot of doors to choose from that are open already and that await to be opened.

Ok... right now I just spoke to a friend of mine, he is nervous if he got in some university because he failed one exam at another university and I found myself telling him: The world gives us opened doors, we shut them because we are scared... so, when doors close it's because you are also scared of looking into them, maybe it'll be good to close some, but not all. Always keep options opened.

Well, that is all, audience. I am off to bed because I wouldn't want my father to shut off the internet on me again =S

Toddles!

P. S. The friend that wrote to me about the university thing had to do with another post I had made in my fb, although it is in spanish, the main thing I wanted to say was this: Be afraid, but confront what ever is presented to you, it means that you will give another step.