I read that in someones status one day and my first response to that, not to the person, was that the harder decisions, in my opinion, are the ones that offer a better opportunity for you. Does it get even harder if you choose, not only for you but also, for someone else involved?
In my personal expirience, the hard decisions are those that give you a broader vision of life, perspectives and angles in one situation and the posibilities that are offered. Though, I will say this, sometimes we are the ones that make the decisions harder than what they are supposed to be, because we debate with our selves wether we should do it or not, we try to see the pro's and con's of the situation and sometimes try to feel it. We are analizers, no matter what, we always try to get the most of that decision, though, I agree that some people just don't think it through and they just let it slide, sometimes it's a good thing and sometimes it's a bad thing, how ever the consequence may come.
Sometimes, we have the answer right under our noses but sometimes we choose not to see the answer, we ignore it, perhaps, denying it.
I addmit, sometimes I know what the answer is, never the less, I tend to ignore it, I try to block it and somehow make it disapear, but nothing can disapear by magic, what ever goes comes around, always. No matter how hard you try to run away from it, the answer will be chasing you until you comfront it and say it or do it.
Why, why, why, why, why... why? Just beacuse. No. There is a reason why that decision making was present to you and there is a reason why you must decide, things don't just present themselves out of now where, you did something in past to deserve that decision making, you are the one responsible for the things that happen to you, not to anyone else but you.
I don't believe that someone can make a desicion over someone else, in the end, everyone does what they want, so, if one person made a desicion over someone, that someone can do something entirely different than what was told. Everyone can either take a suggestion or leave it, it's up to us, not to them. But now, the fact that sometimes we depend on someone to do the "right" thing doesn't mean that they will fulfill our wishes, that person that doesn't fulfill our wishes made the desicion to not to do so, even if they claim that it was important to them, it actually wasn't. We tend to rememer important things, meaningful things to us, but when we don't it's because we had other powerful thoughts taking over the situation.
Does fear involve? Of course it does! fear comes within our analizing of the situation, meaning, almost all the time, and to take action? even worse. But there is nothing better than taking the risk, and if you fail, you gain success. No one can lose in this world, it's a win-win all the time. Everything works as an expirience.
Now, go on, and get crazy.
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