I've noticed that people who ask for constant help are people that don't actually help themselves. They keep on asking for help because they like the attention.
People who don't ask for help, but show themselves as victims are people that also look for attention that way: for us to feel for them.
But those that are happy, don't brag for what they do and don't talk about the "sad things" that happen to them, are those that have low egos. They don't ask for help unless they really need it. They are those people that once they ask for help, they stick to it and don't got back to it.
If you ask for my help more than once in less than a week... you don't want help. Do it yourself because, in the end, you are the only one who can help yourself.
I'm not saying this to piss you guys off (if someone identified themselves, please, don't take it the wrong way, it's a good thing to notice it) it's so you can be enlightened and do something for yourself, not for attention.
